I find tears running down my face as I read this. How oppressed I've been and how insidious it is that I didn't know this 30 years ago! I just thought nobody wanted to see that--to see me. So I denied myself, my sexiness, my desires, and my humanness, and now, here I am at 60--alone and empty. So empty because sex was for able-bodied people, but not for me. I held myself apart and oppressed, and I blamed it all on society. Now I see I could have adjusted those negative thoughts into my favor, and maybe not have made my life so lonely.
Hello Betsey, I am so sorry for everything you’ve been through, please know you have my heart and I’m 100% here for you. Also, I can tell you have a wonderful soul and there are so many people out there would who be lucky to have you in their lives. Yes, mistakes might have been made but please don’t close yourself up to opportunities for companionship, age really IS just a number. You’re beautiful, inside and out, and worthy of everything you desire. Have a wonderful day 🫀
Definitely ashamed of being horny on a Sunday
Naturally
I find tears running down my face as I read this. How oppressed I've been and how insidious it is that I didn't know this 30 years ago! I just thought nobody wanted to see that--to see me. So I denied myself, my sexiness, my desires, and my humanness, and now, here I am at 60--alone and empty. So empty because sex was for able-bodied people, but not for me. I held myself apart and oppressed, and I blamed it all on society. Now I see I could have adjusted those negative thoughts into my favor, and maybe not have made my life so lonely.
Hello Betsey, I am so sorry for everything you’ve been through, please know you have my heart and I’m 100% here for you. Also, I can tell you have a wonderful soul and there are so many people out there would who be lucky to have you in their lives. Yes, mistakes might have been made but please don’t close yourself up to opportunities for companionship, age really IS just a number. You’re beautiful, inside and out, and worthy of everything you desire. Have a wonderful day 🫀
Thank you.
Deliciously immaculate
thank you!
I LOVED this . I needed to hear this
I’m so glad!
This was lovely and heart wrenching. I’m so glad I stumbled across your writing in my feed
Such an important conversation. It’s like I’m haunted by this Puritan American concept where enjoying sex will get me branded for life !
Sheesh! Masterpiece 🙏🏾❤️💪🏾🥹
Whoops…I missed the shame part
This is so beautifully written I don’t even know what specifically to highlight because it all stands out🫶🏼
thank you so Mel
so good it destroyed my virgin ego x
mine too
Absolutely f-ing powerful
need this reminder EVERY day!!!
Paste it somewhere, it’s one hundred percent yours!
well, this was poetic as hell.
‘twas the plan! thank you!
This is brilliant.
thank you🫀
So beautiful
thank you🫀
Thus piece is a mystery.
Is it really?